[13 May] Foreign Chicks Are Better

Introduction Earlier in the day, my concert buddy flaked on me citing introversion/low energy. This kind of bothered me at first since I’ve been trying to put together a tight-knit “crew,” ideally with a subcrew of other Asian guys who are down to approach. I also didn’t exactly feel like his excuse was genuine—he’d gone

[28 April] Blowouts & Yellow Fever

Warmup I arrived to the club earlier than my wing and hung out outside. The night appeared to be completely dead—there were probably a grand total of a dozen people. There was a well-dressed black dude (”Preston”) standing next to me, and we laughed about the absurdity of the situation. I started to wonder whether

Beyond the Numbers: 2021 Recap

Introduction This year was amazing on paper, but there’s more to the story. The Numbers overview new lays: 14 highest ever density: 11 lays in 6 months highest ever yearly total (previous record: 7) modalities Tinder/Hinge: 9 mixers/nightgame lite: 3 daygame: 1 other: 1 race/ethnicity Asian: 64% (🇺🇸, 🇳🇿, 🇨🇦) White: 29% (🇺🇸, 🇫🇷) Latina:

LR#1 — From Paris With Love

Foreward This is the report of my first ever street approach lay. I’ve highlighted a few lessons in italics. Cheers. The Approach “Laura” was the last set of my day on 6 March 2021. I’d had fairly poor results that day, with a number of blowouts and a few conversations that were politely ended by

The Asian Gospel

Introduction Once upon a time, I laid in bed with my fuckbuddy cuddled against me. She was a staunch feminist, having studied at Berkeley, and was at that moment lamenting the fact that some social justice movement or another wasn’t finding much traction. I remember telling her something along the lines of: “At least this